Exclusive: Philly National Coming Out Day celebrations set for first weekend in October

By Michael Zipkin

For the first time since 2019, Philadelphia will celebrate National Coming Out Day. Galaei’s Pride 365 program will organize the weekend of events, called OURfest — which stands for “our uniting resilience” — and will kick off Saturday, Oct. 7 from 4-6 p.m. with the inaugural National Coming Out Parade. The parade will stretch from 5th and Market streets to Broad and Locust streets. Meanwhile, the OURfest: National Coming Out Resource Fair and Festival is set for Sunday, Oct. 8 in the Gayborhood, spanning 12th and Spruce streets to 13th and Walnut streets, with other nearby roads closed off.

“We’re really coming at this from an angle of celebrating National Coming Out Day in Philadelphia and the nation coming here to do that,” said galaei Executive Director Tyrell Brown of the annual LGBTQ+ awareness day observed on Oct. 11.

Galaei is encouraging LGBTQ+ community members from all corners of the country to make travel plans soon for the three-day festival, which includes a welcome event on Friday, Oct. 6, and other festivities to be announced.

For many years, Philadelphia’s National Coming Out Day festival was the largest, Brown said.

“So [we’re] really adding layers to what we traditionally expect for National Coming Out Day in Philadelphia, and making sure that it is something that is truly representative of the city, but also of the national implications of what it means to come out now in 2023, and being able to tell the diverse stories of us coming out as people. Not everyone has the same path or walks the same path, so we want to make sure that we’re really lifting up what these diverse stories mean.”

A new way to celebrate National Coming Out Day

Up until 2019, the organization Philly Pride Presents (PPP), helmed by Franny Price, organized Pride and Outfest events in Philadelphia for decades. In June of 2021, local queer and trans BIPOC activists called for PPP leadership to be overhauled and for serious changes to be made due to what they saw as PPP’s failure to make Pride and Outfest events inclusive of and accessible to Black and Brown and other minority LGBTQ+ community members. This included centering police at Pride parades and other culturally-insensitive decisions.

Shortly after the announcement of a speak-out event by QTBIPOC organizers, PPP shut down its entire organization. A new group of Black and Brown, queer and trans community members, who called themselves PHL Pride Collective, began organizing a Philly Pride event that they intended to be much more reflective of the community and of the history of Pride as a protest movement. Galaei leadership offered their physical space for PHL Pride Collective at the time, but due to differences of opinion, the brunt of the Pride organizing ended up falling on the galaei team, and PHL Pride Collective ultimately ceased being active as a group. Due to the COVID-19 pandemic and the disbandment of PPP, OURfest is the first National Coming Out Day celebration in Philly in four years, and will boast the first parade of its kind.

OURfest: National Coming Out Parade

The OURfest parade will consist of curated and designed floats, representatives from community organizations and live performances. It will also include themed sections that will feature LGBTQ+ youth and families, sports and recreation, professional leaders, pioneers and grand marshals, arts and culture, drag performers and other components of queer and trans culture. The “community cheer” section will showcase the new 200-foot Pride flag featured at the June Pride festivities.

According to a statement from galaei, the final route for the parade is being finalized and will be shared in a future update.

OURfest: National Coming Out Resource Fair and Festival

Similar to galaei’s Pride march and festival, the OURfest resource fair and street festival will be abound with performances, speeches, resources and food from a multitude of LGBTQ+ organizations, nonprofits, artists, makers, entertainers, restaurants, bars, food trucks and vendors. The first annual Mx, Ms or Mr OURfest 2023 will also be awarded at the festival.

Marchers during this year's Pride parade in Philadelphia. (Photo: Cody Aldrich Photography and Aversa PR)
Marchers during this year’s Pride parade in Philadelphia. (Photo: Cody Aldrich Photography and Aversa PR)

Festival attendees can also enjoy youth and family programming that includes bounce houses, game trucks, resources, chest feeding and changing stations, and other resources. Members of several local LGBTQ+ youth orgs will curate this section, including The Attic Youth Center, Big Brothers Big Sisters Independence, galaei’s Student Power Leadership and Activism Together program, Philly Family Pride and the William Way Community Center.

“Bailar con amor,” a space dedicated to Afro-Latinx heritage, art, dance and expression, will have a space at the festival, as it did at Pride. “Kiki Alley” will provide a performance space to showcase the culture and history of Philly’s Ballroom scene, and the “Philadelphia Muses” stage will be rife with local performers, DJs and producers, including Sway Philly and BOS Philly. “OURstage” will feature a melange of producers and acts that don’t have physical brick-and-mortar spaces.

On a more somber note, OURfest festival goers can also engage in a space dedicated to Maso Mut, galaei’s “dearly departed sibling,” as a press release states. Mutt was part of the PHL Pride Collective and died by suicide last year. The space, VICE (*18+), will have workshops on kink and consent, resources and shops with leather items for purchase and safe sex items for free.

The OURfest festival will also offer other spaces and resources including the “decompression zone” in partnership with Disability Pride PA, where attendees can avail themselves of comfortable seating, a cooling station, bathrooms and more. Community services will be available, such as medical tents staffed by doctors and nurses from Bebashi Transition to Hope and Mazzoni Center, as well as therapists, people trained in narcan administration, security managers and other helpful staff. Galaei’s Prioritizing Our People program will have its wellness tent, composed of local community-based organizations, which will offer linkage to health testing and care, and resources like housing, health care and employment by way of case management opportunities. Corporate Way will feature tables by vetted businesses that have shown support for the weekend’s events. Beyond that space, the larger OURfest community will remain the center of attention.

The Pride 365 team intends to “focus not just on the celebratory aspect, but also making sure that there are resources here to support the community after they do come out,” Brown said. “[We’re] really trying to highlight our organizations, the infrastructure here in Philadelphia, the small businesses here in Philadelphia and to do that in scale.”

Of course, a variety of food trucks will be available at the festival, as well as a “sober vibes” space hosted at Writer’s Block Rehab.

For more information about OURfest and Pride 365, visit https://www.galaeiqtbipoc.org/ourfest/ or email Pride365@PhillyPride365.org for more information on volunteering, participating or sponsoring the festival.

The schedule of events, so far, is as follows:

Saturday, Oct. 7

OURfest: National Coming Out Parade
4 p.m.-6 p.m.
5th and Market to Broad and Locust

Sunday, Oct. 8

OURfest: National Coming Out Festival
12 p.m.-7 p.m.
12th and Spruce to 13th and Walnut

Resource fair and family zone
12 p.m.-5 p.m.

Last call for mobile bars/food trucks
6:30 p.m.

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For more about OURfest and how to sign up for the parade and festival, visit http://nationalcomingout.org/ For a full list of all LGBTQIA+ events in the Greater Philadelphia region on that weekend, make sure to visit https://phillygaycalendar.com/ Philadelphia is a city of historic firsts - and the organization that broke records in June for “largest Gay Pride march and festival in Philadelphia history” and “largest Gay Pride Flag in Pennsylvania history” is ready to do it all over again. And yes, that 200 foot beautiful all-inclusive rainbow flag will be out and proud once again in the streets of Philadelphia. After a few years of pride programming being in flux, Galaei, a historic organization serving queer, trans, black, brown, indigenous, and people of color, has taken up the mantle for programming under the banner of Pride 365. This new program provided the Philadelphia Gay Pride March and Festival with new leadership, new stability and a renewed sense of community and purpose. Now, after the pandemic and a three year absence, Galaei’s Pride 365 Initiative will bring new life back to National Coming Out Day/Weekend in October - and present a new line-up of events with the new OURfest parade and resource fair/festival. “We developed Galaei’s Pride 365 Initiative to redefine and elevate Pride Month Month in June - and we are excited to do the same thing in October for National Coming Out Day/Weekend,” said Galaei Executive Director and Community Organizer Tyrell Brown (they/them). “Gay Pride and National Coming Out are crucial opportunities for our communities to join together in celebration and reflection, to find family and togetherness, to have access to resources, and to share the love, art and joy that are hallmarks of our community.” “Pride in June has roots that were in protest and a stand for justice and equality for our larger LGBTQ+ community. 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After a three year absence, the Gayborhood will come to life again in honor of National Coming Out Day/Weekend. OURfest: National Coming Out Festival will take place on Sunday, October 8, 2023, from 12:00pm to 7:00pm, with resource fair and family zone from 12:00pm to 5:00pm, and last call for mobile bars/food trucks at 6:30pm. The festival will spread out across the Gayborhood from 13th and Walnut down to 13th and Locust, across Locust to 12th, then from there to 12th and Spruce, with other select roads closed around the festival footprint. This new resource fair and street festival will feature art and music from the community, in a celebration that combines the uniqueness of Philadelphia and showcases the diverse talents of Philadelphia’s LGBTQIA family, friends, and neighbors. The vibrant location of the Gayborhood, the stronghold of Philadelphia’s LGBTQ community, provides a historic backdrop for 200+ grassroots organizations, CBO’s, nonprofits, artists and makers, entertainers, restaurants and bars, food trucks, vendors and small businesses to provide innovative programming, dynamic structure, community resources, education, food and drink and family fun. The full lineup will include performances, speeches and the awarding of our first annual Mx, Ms, Mr, OURfest 2023. Within the larger festival, Galaei has worked with community partners to build a variety of fun and vibrant places for everyone. Youth and Family Programming will be an expansive space curated by several local organizations, including The Attic Youth Center, Big Brothers Big Sisters Independence, Galaei’s SPLAT program, Philly Family Pride, and the William Way LGBT Community Center. 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The Philadelphia Muses Stage will feature a diverse lineup of local performers and producers, including DJ sets by Sway Philly and BOS Philly, plus the presentation of the first Ms, Mx, Mr OURfest 2023, with additional bands, choirs and other entertainers. This will be a stage festival goers will not want to miss! OURstage will debut with a collaboration of producers and acts that do not have a traditional brick and mortar. This stage will celebrate OUR diverse artistic expressions. VICE (*18+) will be an ode to Galaei’s dearly departed sibling Maso, with a co-produced and curated space for exploration. There will be workshops for kink and consent, resource tabling, and shops to purchase leather and giveaways of safe sex items. The Decompression Zone, in conjunction with Disability Pride PA, is a space for attendees seeking an accessible, low-sensory respite from festivities. This area will feature comfortable seating, tables, accessible bathrooms, a cooling station, a wheelchair charging station, adult changing station and low-level music. This provides a space for elders, those living with disabilities, and others seeking rest and relaxation during the event. Community services will include medical tents for onsite medical needs such as dehydration and minor injuries. These medical services are provided by doctors and nurses from Bebashi and Mazzoni Center. Therapists for folks who are in mental health crisis or may be over stimulated, individuals trained to administer narcan, security managers, staff to answer all day of questions, Sign language and Spanish interpreters, and de-escalation specialists that will move to any point in the festival grounds or at the bars that they are needed. 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ABOUT GALAEI Galaei is comprised of a talented staff of black and brown, nonbinary, and trans organizers, who at our building and in the lgbtq+ community are committed to getting resources, providing empowerment, volunteer opportunities, and assistance to all while prioritizing the most marginalized in our QTBIPOC community. Galaei believes in celebrating pride year-round as queer and trans people because celebrations of our joy and love are implicitly an act of defiance against those who seek to oppress us. We are committed to using our events to educate, provide resources, and facilitate spaces of empowerment and love. ABOUT PRIDE 365 Every PRIDE festival is a crucial opportunity for our communities to join together in celebration, find family, get resources and share the love, art, and joy that are hallmarks of our community. Pride 365 is a new program of Galaei that seeks to elevate the experience of every Pride every year. By combining the unique and vibrant location of our Gayborhood, the stronghold of our queer businesses, supporting small queer and trans business owners, providing innovative programming, dynamic structure, and intention around how the space is curated, we endeavor to have a space for everyone.